Evidently Reggie Miller took a shine to Alex von Furstenberg’s (son of fashion’s own Diane von Furstenberg) fiancee Ali Kay. That would be a no, no. Stalking doubly so.

According to the restraining order, which was never filed, Miller is neighbors with von Furstenberg and Kay, and met her at a Fourth of July party last year. In early March, he ran into her at a grocery store, then waited outside for an hour until she left, before following her up the Pacific Coast Highway.

He also allegedly harassed her by phone, including sending her 53 text messages over the course of less than four hours.